I am reading DR for the second time now, seeing what I missed. I am doing everything right as far as getting a life, detaching, not showing emotions, especially that she could use against me, not being clingy or too receptive to her niceties.

2. Your relationship with your wife is over when YOU say it is over ----MarkF

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