Oh that nurse has seen so many, you probably won't even impress her.....lol. On the other hand.......(no pun intended)
Well, just don't wait too long to say something to your W. I have to deal with a H that won't talk to me about his health problems, Lan, and it drives me nuts. You know, he had open heart surgery about 8 years ago and never goes back for a check up! This is not good! Now I am seeing signs that I first saw before he had his surgery and it worries me a lot. But, I can't get him to go see a doctor b/c he says nothing is wrong. It causes a lot of frustration for me and makes me angry at him. I know he thinks he is protecting me.....just like you are trying to protect your W. Even though she is going through the deal with her dad.....she is probably not as fragile as you may think. She would want to know if something serious is going on with you. So, please, when you find out the results, don't keep it from her. And, for gosh sakes, don't refuse to do whatever they tell you to do. Years ago, I knew a man who had to have some type of radiation for a similar problem, and he never had any more problems.....and that was many years ago before they had the newer technology. Not trying to make light of your situation, but just saying to get that thing taken care of and don't put off. Okay? Doctors say that is the secret to being safe is get it taken care of early. Besides, we all know you are looking forward to seeing that nurse!
P.S. So glad things are working out about the money. Maybe that is a good sign that everything is on its way up. We are going to believe that anyway! Take care of yourself, sweetie.
Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
