I just checked into some Indiana divorce laws. I could easily be divorced by Thanksgiving. Possibly by Halloween. It's a 60-day thing in Indiana. Okay, this is inevitable now. No way he's going to feel any differently in that amount of time.

Why don't I have anything to say about this? I feel like someone's ripping my heart out and I can't move and I just have to stand and watch.

M60
H52
D20
M14 yrs
OW-old gf from 1986
bomb-5/18/08
H filed for D-9/10/08
D final 4/24/09
xH remarried (not OW) 2012