You really think if i think i am done, i will know? I have a feeling if we sell the house and move apart, it truly will be "done"
Actually, almost all of us here in Separated are living apart. Sometimes that's what it takes for them to wake up.
This may sound cynical, but I'm kinda glad this all happened. W's aunt, who was single into her 40's, told me "let her go live the single life, it's not everything she thinks it will be". Turns out that was great advice. And maybe you'll learn to appreciate her more as well.
My guess is this: somewhere deep inside you W doesn't want the house to sell, and if she wanted to move out she would have already. She just still thinks you're BSing these changes, like you always did before. Patience.
I guess the next couple days i will see if W even noticed i was gone all week.. i made time to goto the gym 3 of 4 nights, and on business trips..it's not the easiest thing to do...
yes she think's it's all BS.. will be interesting to see what transpires the next few days
