I walked out, happy about the compliment given to me, but thinking how I couldn't wait to go home and tell my H.
WOW! To think of having problems of being hit on everywhere you go! (lol) Just kidding. You must be very pretty to have this problem!
When you tell your H what happened, how will he respond to that? Some H's get jealous and don't like it and end up taking it out on their W's. Or, they sull up. Don't you just hate that?
If my H ever had a jealous bone in his body, I never knew it. It drove me crazy. I wanted him to be a little bit jealous of me! I have to admit that I even told him something that happened and a boss who was leaving the place where I worked gave me a quick kiss when he left (thinking he would be really jealous). Now understand that this sort of thing had never happened to me before and I think the boss had probably wanted to do that and just knew it was "now or never" since we would never see each other again. BTW, I was about 24 when this happened....lol. Anyway, boy, did it ever backfire on me. My H was mad at me! He wasn't jealous, he was mad at me! Know what he said to me? He said, "What if somebody had seen that, what would they have thought?" That was all he was concerned about....somebody else seeing it. So, that ended me ever trying to make my H jealous.
So, be careful, honey. We never know how men will receive the news that somebody was trying to hit on us. They may blame us instead of thinking what a sexy wife they have and don't blame any man in his right mind for wanting to go out with her. He should be proud of you, but how do we know which way a man's mind will go?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
