lovehopefaith,

I do have a few things I could email him about at this point. I just feel like I have always put myself out on a limb, and he has never had to do any of the work. I suppose its unreasonable at this point to expect anything from him. I'll have to think about the idea of contacting him, and let it sink in. I have asked a couple of people what I should do, and they all say - DO NOT CONTACT HIM! My mom is the only one who thinks I should.

When I read you situation, I feel like I am reading about my H, and it convinces me more and more that the possibility of depression is very real. H has become a stranger to me at this point, it's like someone has taken over his body...weird.

I'll be watching for updates in your posts...

J


JennyB
Me: 29
Him: 29
No kids
Married: Nov/05
Bomb: ILYBNILWY March/07
Back: May/07 "I love you, want to work things out."
2nd Bomb: August/07
I moved out: March/08
House sold, living apart
Waiting for papers...