it does take time. Yesterday (again, it is now 2 years later) I called X and got a voice mail message saying she was not available but it registered, hearing her voice. Hearing her say her first name and her NEW MARRIED name. She has been married for a year, I see her name written in my email address book but it just tweaked me this time.
So, I made sure I connected with my best friend and met up with him and some of the other guys (and some ladies) from church. We fellowshipped and then prayed afterwards.
It takes time.
On a better and brighter note, I also shared with him that earlier in the week X and I spoke and she was VERY agitated about something with my son's football practice, (nothing to do with me). She caught herself starting to rant and then stopped, realizing I am no longer the one she should vent to.
The incident reminded me of how there was always drama in her life, ALWAYS, and it was always someone else's fault.
Just like your ADHD X, along with the good we tend to remember, we are also released from the garbage we had to deal with. We are now free to walk with the Lord unhindered and life can be very sweet in with this kind of a walk.
You will continue to see this to be true, I promise.
Committed2Him- "C2H" All Things (Back from Spain!)...18
