Really upside down #2

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Doing some thinking. Yeah, here come the dumb ideas so get ready.

I've been thinking to myself that I need to be that guy that attracted my wife. Funny, though, I don't remember being that person. I don't know HOW I was, or what I did.

I think I already know the answer, but....what's the harm in asking our S at some point for some specific memories or things in general that attracted them to us? I think that may fall under R talk, but not sure since it's just "what do you remember?"

And lastly....I'm not sure what to do. I'm still having a hard time deciding whether to let her initiate everything. I did call her two days ago just to say Hi. (She had complained that I can never do that without talking about the same R talk). She seemed annoyed and short on the phone so I ended the conversation quickly. I made sure I said "well, I just wanted to see how you were doing"

Today we had the shortest ever email exchange:

W: "how are you?"
Me: "Wonderful, and you?"
W: "I'm great! :)"

....ooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooK. What was THAT all about?