H is broken heart over OW

[artteach]

Tonight he told me that deep down he knew he was never going to leave me, but did not know how hard it would be to get over her. I asked if he misses her and he said "yes but not really her just all the stuff we did, the feeling of no responsibility, the drama that went with it." I said but that is not real and he said he knows that. He can't change his phone number because even though he is now working right now, that number has all his business contacts and stuff and he wants to get back to work and get some of his clients back. I do understand that, he changed his email and some other stuff and told her not to call anymore and is being accountable to me for his time and who he is calling and letting me see his phone if I want. It is nice to hear from someone who went throught his from the other side, I never once thought to kick him out and wanted to fight for our marriage when I found out. I think that surprised him.