"S2~ I have no issues with strong and confident....not an issue! Ask any male physician in my area...i'm the biggest flirt, i show confidence in my work, i know which "shots" to call."
If I asked your husband.. what would he say?
"I do suffer now, from depression...it started about 6-8 months after my dad died. I am in treatment/therapy for it now, and am working with my physicians to manage my medication regimen."
This is why I told Sandi2.. things compounded. I can see it.. and I just want to help. Honestly.. I saw it when I first started posting... Last year. You have to separate the issues. Focus on one at a time. Get one "fixed".. then move to the next one. Right here.. you need to decide what we focus on. I am OK with either.. I just need to know where to go.
"When we very first started dating, I worked as a teller at a bank, he would come thru the drive-up window and we would just "chat" and I would just smile and blink...likw flirtatious women do...he was seeing someone at the time (remind you this was over 10 yrs ago)....my friends had a halloween party, i invited him, he showed up with her, i bet him 20 bucks he couldn't get rid of her and come back and party with me...well low and behold he left a few mins. later he was back without her...so we were talking, i was working my mojo...and BOOM...she came stormin in the door like no tomorrow...needless to say, he left her in the truck and came back in to see me(pattern here anyone???)a few weeks later she was history, he came thru the bank and asked me to his works christmas party, and from there...well here we are...."
The girl that did this is hiding. She is actually hiding behind the pool. She is peeking around the corner.. and we all can see her.
"I can handle the bee stings...can you guys handle me?"
This is what concerns me. I can't do this alone.
Sandi2.. There is more than meets the eye here. Christa.. has alot of loss.. that is now having a big factor in what she may loose. You can talk about the loss.. I am going to try and get some help in here.. get some woman talk going on. Right now.. we need to focus on getting Christa.. better.
Relax Eat Think Act normal React.. Smartly. Do something different. Emulate. Do Work.
