H called me at work late this afternoon. He was nasty and snapping. He wanted to know about this weekend. He critizied each and every thing I had planned. He told me that in a few days I don't have to worry or ask about what he's doing or where he's going. I told him that we still have D4 to consider. I asked if he was still thinking about going to live in IN. He said that if he has another month like this one, that yes, he probably will, as he thinks he'll get fired.

H asked me if it was "feel sorry for Sue" week next week. He asked why my family is coming in town. Well, my parents come all the time, my niece & her boyfriend came last year on the same weekend and had been planning on coming again and my sister & bil just wanted to come in.

He was just very angry. He then asked me if I was going to retain an attorney or if we were going to do this amicably. I told him 2 things. Getting an attorney does not mean that things will not be peaceful. And, that I've told him all along that I want it peaceful. I reminded him that we need to get things worked out about D4. He said....there's forms online that we can do the divorce ourselves.

Just nasty today. The nerve of the guy to have a freakin' date last night and then think it's okay to treat me like sh*t today???

SueS


ME: 42, H: 42, D6
Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs.
Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009
Status: Working on it day by day