Oh yes, definately. My IC has helped me TREMENDOUSLY. H even went to an IC for a couple of sessions, until he heard what he didn't like and then bailed. He wasn't/isn't ready for that yet.

You know your sitch better than we do, but speaking only for myself, we would have been better off if OW had come with us \:\/ because we got nothing accomplished but more hurt feelings.

Last edited by Sugar and Spice; 07/24/08 11:30 PM.
M:39
H:39
K:S14;D8
T:22yr
M:15yrs
S:12/28/07 EA/PA
3/14/08 OW preg
11/17/08 born
12/12/08 his
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Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option