Counseling or not when there's infidelity?

[hoosiermama]

While I suppose there's nothing to lose by having a couple more sessions--the next being W with MC--it's pretty much conventional wisdom that as long as there's a third person in the marriage, MC will be absolutely ineffective. SandS had a great perspective with the triangle analogy.

Either way, IC is very helpful for me and probably most people in this kind of sitch. It might be a big help for you as well.