Your W is detaching.. it's normal, and I know really scary. You'll BOTH go through a process of detaching. For me anyway it was almost tougher "feeling" my H detach than doing it myself. If you read through that coping.org stuff it might help some. It'll help you see that some level of detachment is important even in a happy, healthy R.
It's also pretty normal that she's pulling away after some closeness / intimacy, so I bet she's struggling a bit too.
Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7 Bomb 1 10/07/06 Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15 Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07 Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate 2/08 slowly improving 7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!) Current thread
