ms ladybug SQUISHED (3)

[TwinDad]

((((((Ladybug))))))

I am glad to hear from you again....well I wish none of us were here and everyones M were perfect....but you know what I mean.

First off I have to say the "BBQ event" was probably one of the most classless things I have ever heard about.

Your H, more than anything seems to like to test you and push your buttons until you trip up. He seems very insecure in your M. It also seems clear that he doesn't want to get a D....he would have filed by now. He is quite the button pusher. He seems to test you by talking about the D and then is upset when you get you talk to a L. He is looking for you to be confident in the M.

Moving away seems to be very high on his list probably for a variety of reasons.....better life for you and the kids, and likely a vote of confidence from you in the R, by abandoning your life to start a new one with him.

I think you would be wrong to move away at this point before improving the R.

You two always seem to get in a fight whenever your talk about the R which problabaly results from a blame game escalation.

Perhaps agreeing to move away at a later date if the two of you could work on and improve your M, might be a good compromise....of course assuming this is somethign you are eventually willing to do.