Last night I went for it and asked for a hug. At first he seemed unsure, so I started to say that it was okay I understood. He stopped me and explained that the only reason he was unsure was because when this all started about 6 weeks ago He gave me a kiss and at the time I took it to mean he had changed his mind and was going to work on the marriage. I found out later that night that I was wrong and he was still thinking he wanted a separation. I guess he was just trying to let me know he hasn't made up his mind yet about whether he wants to work on things or if he wants to leave. I understand that now.
We did share a very nice hug then, he even kissed my neck. So I think it was a success. I plan on taking things very slow with him. I will remember to take Babysteps.
Thank You, shelby
Me:43 H:43 T:20 YRS M:15 YRS Bomb: 6/9/08 Bomb#2 7/6/10 Served with papers at work 7/13/10 DD:14, DD:11
