S&S and Lost, congratulations to both of you on finding yourself. It took me the longest time to really understand about GAL. You see, I never had one before. Now, I'm discovering a new me and regardless of the outcome of my R, I will never regret finding me.
I'm still in the middle of things and not really sure if there is an A or not. My regret is that I wasn't strong enough to not snoop. W says that was the last straw. I refuse to believe that.
Time to refocus on the end goal. The end goal isn't really a wonderful marriage because I can't control that. The end goal is to become a cool interesting guy that everyone wants to spend time with and then to create a life filled with similarly cool interesting people and to be a responsible loving father who regularly creates wonderful adventures with his kids.
