Hi Ann, OK I'm going to change. I'll be tough and to the point, here goes ...
Originally Posted By: ann25
I'm working on reading through her sitch, there is a lot there and i do have to work a little during the day... \:\)
Originally Posted By: ann25
I'm really trying not to do more of the same. I feel like i have changed my attitude and behavior and I'm working on more.
Precise examples of YOUR excuses and more of the same. I've seen this pattern all along. You are in effect enabling his behavior.
Originally Posted By: DomR
Stop accepting excuses from YOURSELF.
You can only guarantee changing YOU. Your only hope for success is to change YOU, first! Actually do it now, no "trying". Then MAYBE he'll change over time (months to years).