it is a balance.... you do all your work and changes and take action...then you do watch and wait .... if all the work you have done is positive- it may throw your W for a loop and she may react poorly..when you know you have detached- is when you can see that it isnt about you. and you dont take what she does/says to heart and relize how much pain she is in.....and just work on you and do your own thing....it is when you dont ride her rollercoaster anymore. you will see- you are alaready there...some days arent as clear..
i like this quote to help with this idea- it helps me realize how GREAT I am and that I can only work on me... " Be the Greener Grass"
Pisces M 31 H 32 M 7 yrs S 5/10 Beginning Contact! Vibes Hot Tub Cheese
