OK. Then, can jon or anyone explain to me what Ephesians 5 means? It DOESN'T say wives submit to your husbands ONLY if they love you back. How can I explain what that verse is REALLY about. I guess I don't understand it myself. Chris, you're right. He IS manipulating me via my faith. He KNOWS that's the one thing I won't back down on. Pisces, any suggestions? I told him that I'd like to discuss our issues with a third pary present (mc), so that we can really listen, validate, and work through them without arguing and misunderstanding each other. He refuses.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."