Well I just got off the phone a couple hours ago with my DB couch (first time). It went real well, but I have some questions for some out there that as or is facing the some of the same problems.
1. My WAW just is 50 y.o.a. She has she not going thru MLC. Will this make a deferens in the way I approach things with her? 2. Will this take DB take longer with her in the type of hormonal stress? 3. Any ideas how I can start with some friendly contacts? (We are separated) a. Should I email her and asked if she is having a good day or is this pursuing? b. Should I wait until she emails and start a dialog and work with that? 4. I talk to my Therapist yesterday and she hadn’t read or knows anything about DB or DR. I made the statement to her yesterday,” If we had admitted to the problems years ago, we may have been able to work them out. She said or would have gotten a divorce soon.” I don’t know but dose it sound like she is on D kick? 5. Should I look for another Therapist? I have been told that there may not be a DB Therapist in my area.
