I never said she was not a nice person. she has settled because she is afriad to live a life without her husband. she deserves better then this and you know it. I am not being abusive. you can make all of the excuses you want but one day all of the horses and all of the dogs will not be able to replace the thing she is missing from her life. that would be someone to love her as much as she loves him. BS away Frank, and look at your own life before offering advice.