Whether an excuse or a necessity, she initiated it.
I say bring her home a little souvenir or something. What will it hurt? Do you think it would be pursuing since you guys seem to do things for each other still?
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
Whether an excuse or a necessity, she initiated it.
I say bring her home a little souvenir or something. What will it hurt? Do you think it would be pursuing since you guys seem to do things for each other still?
way ahead of you hehe.. i got her something basic ( some salt water taffy from Alaska..) I don't think it's pursuit do you? I have not contacted her other than that and i've been here 3 days..2 days to go.. it's nice here but been raining all week
I also picked up her perfume at the duty free, she had asked for it, and I called her to see if the price was right. I think she will be surprised at the stuff i bought for my brothers baby to be..
I also got treats for our dogs and our cats, speaking of them, i noticed on facebook she removed all pics of one of the dogs and cats (well almost all).. and all pics of me (except for 1 or 2)..
went and saw a movie tonight for the first time i think ever by myself, drove to south Anchorage and just went...i am happy i did.. i will be tired tomorrow.. but that's fine.
I wonder if I am done.. now a really good friend's friend seems to have taken interest in me.. i was out with all of them for dinner saturday.. she wants to go play squash.. my W would never play squash .. making me think ..
Bring her home an Eskimo to take the chill off. Sorry. That kinda rude of me.
Be careful about taking interest in other women. If things don't work with your wife, you need to take some time to BE ALONE. Looking at this stage is very dangerous.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."
You really think if i think i am done, i will know? I have a feeling if we sell the house and move apart, it truly will be "done"
Actually, almost all of us here in Separated are living apart. Sometimes that's what it takes for them to wake up.
This may sound cynical, but I'm kinda glad this all happened. W's aunt, who was single into her 40's, told me "let her go live the single life, it's not everything she thinks it will be". Turns out that was great advice. And maybe you'll learn to appreciate her more as well.
My guess is this: somewhere deep inside you W doesn't want the house to sell, and if she wanted to move out she would have already. She just still thinks you're BSing these changes, like you always did before. Patience.
Me: 30 W: 28 T 8, M 6 S: 7-27-2007 W filed (again) 3-2011 Served 8-2011 Responded, now dark "I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK
Bring her home an Eskimo to take the chill off. Sorry. That kinda rude of me.
Be careful about taking interest in other women. If things don't work with your wife, you need to take some time to BE ALONE. Looking at this stage is very dangerous.
yep i know.. i likely see it differently than ow... i just want someone to play squash with.. thanks for the reminder
You really think if i think i am done, i will know? I have a feeling if we sell the house and move apart, it truly will be "done"
Actually, almost all of us here in Separated are living apart. Sometimes that's what it takes for them to wake up.
This may sound cynical, but I'm kinda glad this all happened. W's aunt, who was single into her 40's, told me "let her go live the single life, it's not everything she thinks it will be". Turns out that was great advice. And maybe you'll learn to appreciate her more as well.
My guess is this: somewhere deep inside you W doesn't want the house to sell, and if she wanted to move out she would have already. She just still thinks you're BSing these changes, like you always did before. Patience.
I guess the next couple days i will see if W even noticed i was gone all week.. i made time to goto the gym 3 of 4 nights, and on business trips..it's not the easiest thing to do...
yes she think's it's all BS.. will be interesting to see what transpires the next few days
well today was a bad day, first one in a longtime, all the flying today (over 10 hours in airports/flying).. i REALLY missed w today.. i came home she was still up, i showed her the baby stuff i bought for my brother-SIL's upcoming baby..
hugged the dogs.. (i barely even remember what a human hug feels like anymore)...
I snooped.. she has some pictures in her purse of her and some guy from long ago..
