nlt, it is easy to focus on them...but be glad that he is in a different city and you cannot hear about or see him involved in his shenanigans...it hurts when people are trying to 'help' you by telling you all sorts of stuff.
Don't expect to hear from him on your b-day...I think they feel so guilty sometimes that they feel it is best just to disappear.
Yes if my sitch goes towards D then I will need an excellent lawyer. One who is not biased even if she knows LL...sigh. I hate this.
Glad to hear your bubby ate a little today...keep my updated!!!
Let us continue to pray!!!
Hugs, Valentine
Aug '06: H moved out July '08: H had a kid with the OW May 12 '09: emancipation day
"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller