I've been finding it hard to write an update. I'm not sure why. Maybe it's because piecing is a lot less eventful (thankfully!) or maybe it's just hard to put into words how I feel. I feel like we've reached a decent place, a better place than we were a year or two ago of course, but not the final destination, not the place we both want to be. I do feel that we are on the right road to that place, however, and that makes me happy.
H and I are both trying hard to improve our R and it seems to be working. We had MC on Monday, discussed my trust issues. I think he was surprised that I had waited until MC to bring up the issue. C was helpful, talked to us about steps we should each take to try to regain the trust. Time is the biggest factor, I think. I didn't approach the porn issue since we were running out of time- maybe next time.
