Originally Posted By: Neilh23
okay so here's a quandry that i've been thinking about...

how do i implement my goals, yet detach and make changes for myself? if i'm watching for her reaction to my action, am i really detached? or is that unconditional love?

just a question.....


Exactly!!

I've been pondering this too! I posted on it, I think its on page 5 in my thread (actually I think it was in response to one of your posts,ha!)

Lets think more about this...
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