Thank you for all your support- I am OK he made the decision that i was struggling to make Now I believe I need to let him go 100% this time If he would like to return and I am still up for it..then yes if I see no sign of wanting return I have to go from reading all your posts here..I realize the return rate is so low..I did everything I could to save my M and im so glad I tried..I gained growth and hopefully taught my children M is worth saving If any other oldtimers would like to share what finally happened please feel free-- Your stories have been inspiring I have enjoyed reading everyones posts peace
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