Counseling or not when there's infidelity?

[HopefultotheEnd]

I posted this question in my newcomers thread but thought I'd ask here as well to see what you all think as well.

My W has moved out, is seeing OM and regularly states that she is confused as to what she wants.

I saw a new MC yesterday who suggested that W take the next session so she can tell her side and we can be on even footing with one session each. Prieviously I had pretty much decided that no MC would be effective while my W was in an active affair. But, this MC offered some pretty good insight and I think it might help. So I'm thinking that I should make the offer. W will most likely go.

What do you think? Do I make the offer to her or continue to focus on me? The pro's vs. cons are pretty even on this one as far as I can see.

Any insight would be helpful.

HTTE