WAW follow-up

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The last thing she said about our R is that if she came back she knows that she will fall back into the same old thing. It sounds like her Therapist talking to me, but she is probably right …… for now.

To me, it sounds like she would be making an excuse because at this point, she has doubts about the R working.

Another thing I think is strange that when she came by the house to pick-up some of her papers, she said that she did not want to take any of the family pictures. …. Any ideas why?

My W did the same thing. Her apartment has no pictures of anyone, not just us, though. She still has pictures on her desk because she doesn't want to let on to people about our issues.

For you, she probably just doesn't want this R in her face. She is trying to figure things out and pictures are a sure reminder of something that no longer exists the way they did in that picture.