Hey Kelly, just noticed your post, there are a lot of good people here that will try to help.
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Kelly: I have gotten so emotionally detached, trying to protect myself from any more pain, that I really want him to leave. I cannot take being in the same house with him thinking about him being with another women when I was begging him for help in our marriage. I do not know how to get over the hurt.
I was/am there, thought of my W and OM were driving me crazy, and they still do to an extent, but it does get better. I keep busy with the kids housework, etc and that helps keep my mind off of W and OM. I cannot even look at my wife, it makes me sick, but my W would not give up OM and was unwilling to work on our relationship so I really didn't have any choice.
Friends help also, being able to get away from everything for awhile with a friend helps, I know its hard, I know you hurt. I'll try to keep an eye on your post, there are so many people here in every stage from Seperation, Divorce, to Reconciliation.
I wish I could give you some words of wisdom, or something to make the pain go away, unfortunately, you will have to work through this, we all do, we all have felt the pain, we have to keep moving forward with our lives.
I'm sorry you are here, but I know you will find some comfort from the people here.
M45 W41 M10 3/4 years D9, D6, D6, S5 OM confirmed 12/07 merry christmas to me WAM (Walk Away Mom) 05/31/08 Date I'll forgive W for A = never
