Kelly Jo The Wifey new thread.

[steady]

I used to have one of those really thin rubber bands and I traded up for a fatter one this morning...hurts more...lol.

Behavioral therapy is a blast.

I can't do anything about him. I feel it this morning. Good evening of perspective.

This is where your peace lies. (and mine too) We don't have any control over them, their thoughts, their feelings, their actions. We can only work on us, make ourselves better people, more relaxed, detached etc...

Hopefully those changes will make them change.

I read recently that when one spouse changes the other one has to change because the situation is different. Some of their confusion and pain comes from their reluctance to change or to even accept that we have changed.

Ken