Maybe drop him an e-mail about the mail, as a reminder? And just add a cheery, "hope all is well" at the end?
The one thing I have learned from this site and the books is that every situation is different. Not everything works for everybody. The only true rules are "don't push, plead, beg" and "be patient."
So maybe send an e-mail? Then see if it works. If it doesn't, move on. If you does, maybe reply with another light follow-up. Then take it from there.
Thanks for reading my thread too. It's nice to know one is not along in their misery, isn't it?
M 39 H 34 D 6 M almost 8 years T 11 years Bomb: 6/5/08