why would he even think this?? Does he think your unstable, weak..not strong enough to "get over him"?
I was depressed in the past, before we got married. He doesn't understand depression. He doesn't understand that my deficient thyroid hormone could cause such behavioral changes. He doesn't get that my thyroid medication has relieved my depression. I do believe he thinks I'm weak. In December he told me when he married me he "thought he could help me but now isn't sure." So you married me out of pity???? WTF????? Because I was upset that his friendship with another woman was taking priority over me, he thinks I'm unstable. I can't change the way he feels.
He also has way too many people who profess their adoration of him and I think he's gone to the dark side. He's gotten pretty arrogant, whereas when I first met him he was just really confident.
The thing is, if our roles were switched and he was the one posting on this site, I'm sure he'd say lots of derogatory things about me and make me seem like a wacko monster. I'm not trying to make him out to be the bad guy. I'm just stating the facts as I see them. I miss the old him but I'm ready to move on to my next life experience.
And, I'm so glad we don't have kids. Although, I think he would've tried a little if we did... maybe.
M: 37 H: 36 Married: Aug 13, 2004 Decision to Divorce: July 20, 2008 Reconciled: September 2008 Current: Ambivalence
