Hey Sugar and Spice, thanks for checking in on me.

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S&S: It sounds to me like your W is looking for something she is never going to find, happiness through outside things. I have to read your whole sitch and I'm sorry I haven't, but I have lurked here and there and until she is able to be happy with herself she will continue to chase the "dream/fantasy."
Don't be sorry I've done the same to your sitch, lurked about, there are so many people here, I know It's hard to add more people to your time, I try to keep up with approx 4 or 5 post, I really don't have the time and I'm not the best at DBing. I don't think W will ever be happy, she is fighting everything, her age, her weight, her wrinkles, her hair (turning gray) she is fight herself about what she wants to do in life.

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S&S I admit that until this happened I hadn't taken my kids to church or anything.
I was the same way when they were younger, as the kids started school (we send them to a private Catholic School) we started to get more involved, or at least I did, W was usually sleeping when we went to church. She made a small effort once to start going but that didn't last long. Our Catholic Parish is a community, my kids play softball, soccer, etc with the same kids every year, most go to school together, we see each other at church, at the parish picnic, at girl or boy scouts the parents each know each other and each others kids, it a nice way to raise a family.

Sugar and Spice, I always got a laugh out of your comment: OW pregnant, with what we're not sure. \:D also hope the wine was good last night, I enjoy a glass of red every now and then

Hey cat how the heck are you, ;\) I'm constantly thinking about what you posted about my life getting better, when all this crap went on, finding out about OM, W moving out, house falling apart, I was at rock bottom - only way to go is up from here.

M45
W41
M10 3/4 years
D9, D6, D6, S5
OM confirmed 12/07 merry christmas to me
WAM (Walk Away Mom) 05/31/08
Date I'll forgive W for A = never