Also, I think he feels an enormous sense of relief that a decision has been made. He may also feel relieved that I'm the one who actually made the decision.
To me that sounds weak..So you may be right, deep down he may be.
it's good that you two will attempt to remain friends. Lots of times in these things that does not happen. For what it's worth I'm glad no kids are involved. It makes things much harder and not only do you feel that your life is "changed", just think what a small child must feel.
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I believe he thinks he's been my savior and I think a part of him was afraid I would do something to hurt myself if he made the decision.
why would he even think this?? Does he think your unstable, weak..not strong enough to "get over him"?
