Mike, yes, I believe he's being nice to make the process nice. We do plan on staying friendly due to work. Also, I think he feels an enormous sense of relief that a decision has been made. He may also feel relieved that I'm the one who actually made the decision. I believe he thinks he's been my savior and I think a part of him was afraid I would do something to hurt myself if he made the decision. Either that, or he's just like Kalni's husband: WEAK.

I choose to remember the strong, caring, kind, generous, loving man I married. Things happen. People change. Maybe we are no longer right for each other, but we shared something beautiful at one point and I am truly grateful for the wonderful life experience we shared.


M: 37
H: 36
Married: Aug 13, 2004
Decision to Divorce: July 20, 2008
Reconciled: September 2008
Current: Ambivalence