Originally Posted By: Neilh23
the communication was all that was wrong.....it's so easy to make better..........


I'm betting there were some actions in there that helped make it wrong.

And if you think it's easy to change your communication style think again.

Just like almost everything else, it is alearned behaviour and it takes unlearning & relearning. You haver your own 'natural' communication style as well as the patterns you have set with your W. that are destructive.. both need to change. It is work. a lot of conscious energy draining work.

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