Distressed. I have been through both books< love without hurt, and HTIYMWT.. great books for my sitch. I need to go over them again and again... I need to work on the parts it asks me to work on. Getting in touch with my feelings is hard. I have stuffed them & taken on H's for so long.
As much as I see this pattern described in the book explaining how we got here, it doesn't just seem to be from his perpsective. It also fits me I have told him I feel shamed & disrespected, he has told me he is fearful. So in some instances I see the reverse being true for us, from what is described in the book. Not all the time, but some of the time.
Your perspective is helpful. Thank you so much. I hope you can keep posting.
Divorced 03/2010 Mom to two amazing kids
Taking the road less traveled because those encountered on the way may be just as unique.
