tell him to file for D, I bet he wont, call his bluff, and if he does, you'll be off this crazy rollercoaster, he is so unstable it's scary.
I actually agree with this. Calmly say "if that's what you want to do, I won't stand in your way" (no sarcasm). Again, the last thing he would expect from you.
When my W was threatening like this, my C said "why don't you give her what she wants?" So I did. And she filed, settled, went all the way to the last step before figuring out I wasn't the problem.
Me: 30 W: 28 T 8, M 6 S: 7-27-2007 W filed (again) 3-2011 Served 8-2011 Responded, now dark "I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK
