ms ladybug SQUISHED (3)

[jon2911]

Good grief. Ms B, you're right on with what he's trying to do. The Alien wants us to react, because it justifies what they're doing.

You handled it great! You didn't react or make a scene, and you let him know that you felt disrespected. This is progress.

After you didn't react like he expected, he decided to throw the D word out to push your buttons. Remember, it's not a big deal if he moves away. Might actually be better, because then he'll miss you. He has no idea how hard it would be to sell the house and get a divorce. Logic has no place in la-la land.

I really believe things will start to turn for you when he realizes he can't control you any more. As for his relationship with God, that will come. Deep inside he knows what he's doing is wrong, and that makes him even more angry.

I'd still recommend CR at your church, you'd be surprised how many people there are going through the same thing. It's extremely hard to "put a sock in it" in your sitch, you need some help, or at least people who understand.

Rest assured that H sees every time you react differently. And he might be willing to do something like Retro, but not for a while yet. Like my C told me almost a year ago: don't give in to their demands! He needs to respect you again. And every time you pull a 180 and shock him, that will start to happen.