Seems like a pretty good attitude in general....keep the focus on you and not on her (i.e. don't make the changes to show her what she is missing, make them to show yourself who you can be and want to be)...make the changes for you....live the changes.
TwinDad Me 39, W 36, M 11 W - MLC, WAW???? 2 Kids B/G 3 YRS Old Start of the Long and Bumpy Road..... On the verge of piecing.....a new beginning