Phil....IMHO...you are ignoring a fundemental principle of relationships....

everyone has their own opinion.

Just because you believe yours is the right one doesn't make that reality. Everyone has "rose colored glasses" on when they interpret the world....their own experiences color it their own personal way. Once you accept that, the more you will be able to understand that many people are just giving constructive criticism in helping you. You may even begin to understand your W more.

You claim to be a Christian. You want to walk in the footsteps of God. God does lash out, yes. HOwever, He also always offers forgiveness, and is not bitter. You are bitter.

Stop enabling your W. You will feel better about yourself.

ME:32 WAW:31
D #1: 3.5 D #2: 2
Together: 13 M:6
Bomb Dropped: 2/15/08
Sep legally: 6/18/08

"Tommorrow there'll be sunshine, and all this darkness past..."
-Bruce Springsteen Land of Hope and Dreams