Funny you should say "tired of banging your head against the wall".....many of the speakers at Retrouvaille said that phrase when describing how they felt before going.
I know it seems so stupid.....we seem so stupid about these OM. My OM said all the right things, too. He also swore at me, called me names, and was irresponsible. But, I just thought "well, I'm married, so he has the right to get mad and call me names, etc. As for his irresponsibleness, I can change him." All so stupid. But, when you have those endorphins and that "love" you just think like that. Some day she will know this....withdrawal....it's like a drug.
