Hope4us struggle, part 7

[Hope4us]

I understand it's probably her coping method. W is a feelings kind of person, not a logical, thinking type person. I'm sure that's one of the attractions of OM, because he knows all the right things to say. And that's just not my opinion. I mean, OMW told me that he always knew just what to say....why else could he have 4-5 affairs on her and it took her this long to divorce him?

Anyway, I digress. W has two VERY GOOD FRIENDS that she COULD talk to, but won't, because they won't tell her what she wants to hear like the EGF does. One of those friends had an affair of her own a number of years ago and ended it and her and her H are doing better than ever, but she won't talk to her about it. And that's another thing I don't know if I understand. How can a grown woman with kids almost as old as the EGF listen to her about marital issues. The age and the fact that the EGF has been married twice at age 25 and both marriages lasted one year.

So she's so far refused looking at the books and previously refused to go to Retro. I'm just tired of banging my head against the brick wall....