First Month of Separation, No Hope

[LosingSunshine]

Ken,

I know how you must feel and trust me, I've had too many thoughts and too many people telling me to throw in the towel. But I won't, not yet. No matter how bad things might seem right now things can change.

If you do what DR/DB says, things will change for the better. You D, friends, family, parishoners, everyone, will come to learn how they were had over by your W. Don't fall for the trap by giving up. Giving up tells everyone your W was right. You must be the better person here. At the end of the day, we have our integrity to protect and are you by doing that by giving up? I don't think so. Giving up is a way to protect yourself from the negative feelings and emotions but only temporarily. GAL, making yourself a better person, being the better person in the sitch is what works.

Hang in there. We are praying for you. We need you to be strong.

Chris