Deep breath!!!!!!! Here is the email I just received.

'Hi, I hope you're ok and having a nice day. I forgot that I'm going to the cinema tonight to see Batman so is it okay if we talk tomorrow evening instead?

Also I completely forgot (not doing very well here!) that I've got two gigs this weekend down in Kent with Jo's family. There's one on Saturday afternoon and another on Sunday afternoon so I won't be around at the weekend at all. It completely slipped my mind - if he hadn't emailed me today I wouldn't even have showed up! Sorry to have to put it off yet again, I hope you don't mind. I am definitely free the following weekend on one day so maybe we can reschedule.

Speak to you soon
H. '

Seriously, what am I supposed to do about this??? What is wrong with the guy?! It is sooooooooooooo cr*p and really not good enough. I feel like he is taking the p out of me. HE is the one who wants to sell the house. While he is kicking his feet, house prices are falling and I am stuck in that house unable to move on knowing that I am going to lose it and that no progress is being made at all. I know I should have patience and all that but there is a fine line between being understanding and being a push-over. At the moment I feel like a push-over but as soon as I make any kind of demands he will take it as that and our interactions will go back to being negative.

I am not free tomorrow evening and I am also not free for the next two weekends so this will drag out even longer. I suppose the main thing is that the money goes into our bank account, that is the imperitive issue.


M- May 2006
D - Aug 2010
Now travelling the world