You said: "I mean, she could say she doesn't want to go and I say "then what is your plan for seeing if we can fix the marriage, cause what we're doing now ain't workin" and if she can come up with something, then MAYBE"
That's a good plan.
The feelings you have she is not understanding, and the feelings she has you are not understanding. I really hope you both go to retro because you are PRIME candidates for it.
It's good that you are letting her think about Retrovaille by giving the info to her and waiting on her. If she says nothing, don't just assume she says no. Don't make this a test to see if she says anything. Just sit and ask her about it eventually and get your answer.
Since your not a praying man, I'll pray double for ya.
