Yes, it did happen really fast! I think he knew it was wrong for him to be seeing this OW & us still M so he wanted it over quickly & I have a feeling she was pushing him too.
I've been focusing on my H too much too. I'm trying to do more about me lately, but then there are those days I just can't get my mind off him, which is everyday but since I found that song I haven't been as depressed when I think about him. My birthday is coming up & he was gone on a trip in 2006, but was back the next day, he told me he hated being gone on my b'day & he would never been gone on my b'day again. Well, this year he will be gone.
I guess I keep hoping I will hear from him but I doubt I will. I'm not holding my breath.
WOW! I sure hope your sitch doesn't go toward D, you are going to need an EXCELLENT lawyer for sure with him knowing everyone & being a lawyer himself. One of my cousin's H left her for OW & he was a cop, she thought she was getting a good lawyer but he knew her H & didn't help her too much at all. If her dad had not been there to help her she wouldn't have gotten anything. I came out better in my sitch than she did in hers. I just hope my H doesn't hold that legal stuff against me. He does hold a grudge, he did with his first wife but he hated her. This OW he is with now I believe is worse than his first wife ever thought about being, I think she is more manipulative. He won't like that for sure!
I'm so glad your surgery went well. I haven't had to have that yet but I'm sure I will before long. I have had those hot flashes tho & they are terrible!!!
My bubby ate a little this morning so I'm going to see how she does the rest of the day. She acts like she feels good, we'll see.
I so enjoyed talking with you & I'm glad we have found each others threads.
