Sorry kalni - didn't have wine last night. I'll stop by and offer some coffee.
Engaged as in involved, actively interested in things.
But to be honest I'm probably just reacting to the first woman I've met and I'm not even divorced yet, so best to steer clear.
I was accused of being blue. Guess it's my style of musing, contemplating, navel-gazing. Doing okay. Don't have enough time to get done all that I want to get done, but such is life.