thanks lost, read the whole thread. the only thing i don't want to regret is not speaking to OM face to face, but he is a coward, despite the fact that it is my wife's fault for instigating an affair/our separation. i did some things wrong in our R, being emotionally distant at times, but nothing warrants an affair. NOTHING.
Last edited by buster80; 07/24/0810:41 AM.
2. Your relationship with your wife is over when YOU say it is over ----MarkF